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What is it that is part of the fear? is it that you will be lifting less weight? is it that people can see you in weird positions? I always hate to say suck it up, that's too Dr. Phil for me.

You already have a gym membership, so going to a womens gym is out, huh? Was there ever a time that you felt comfortable working out with men in the room? You mentioned the separate gym in the undergrad. Have you tried it yet, or is this pre-try fear? Can you go with a buddy? I'd try some positive self talk too. When I run, I say "I'm light, I'm fast, and I'm free."

I'd have to disaggree with Josh, I'd rather be in the gym than at home to work out. I'd also like to see you overcome and achieve.

Good luck, and report back when you get home from the gym. When are you going?